As Christmas approaches and 2022 draws to an end, The Mesimer Team extends best wishes for a joyous Christmas and happy New Year.
We are pleased to have helped our many clients sell their homes, buy new ones, make improvements and contribute positively to the community we all call home – the City of St. Petersburg. We are sincerely thankful for their trust and loyalty.
RE/Max Metro realtor Estelia Mesimer says, “At this special time of year it’s very important to practice gratitude. It’s a way for you to appreciate what you have instead of reaching for something new in the hopes it will make you happier, or thinking you can’t feel satisfied until every physical and material need is met.”
12 Inspiring ways to spread Holiday Cheer
A few years ago I read an article written by Joshua Becker, author and self-proclaimed minimalist. In it he shares twelve simple ways to spread holiday cheer. I hope you enjoy his thoughts as much as I do and incorporate as many of them as possible.
1) Handwrite a letter
The handwritten letter has become a lost art in our world. During the holiday season, the handwritten letter has been replaced by the mass produced family photo cards. In a world where handwritten letters have been forgotten, their uniqueness and value increases dramatically. So find 10 minutes, a stamp, and an envelope. Choose an old friend with a current street address and put some of your thoughts of appreciation on paper.
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2) FaceTime/Skype an old friend
Technology has entirely changed our lives. In my lifetime alone, the idea of video conferencing with a friend has gone from far-fetched science fiction to cultural norm. Use it to your advantage by connecting face-to-face with an old friend or a friend halfway around the world. It doesn’t need to be too long, just lengthy enough to wish them a happy holiday and maybe compare how much the children have grown.
3) Buy coffee for a stranger
Next time you roll through the drive-thru of your local coffee shop, offer to pay for yourself and the person behind you (if they have already ordered, the cashier should have their bill handy). Or better yet, a little trick I learned from a friend is to leave a $20 bill with the cashier after you pay and ask him/her to pay for the following customers until the $20 runs out. Either way, coupled with their favorite beverage, this pleasant surprise is guaranteed to brighten someone’s day.
4) Smile and joke with your next cashier
The hustle and bustle and stress-filled shopping days leading up to Christmas results in plenty of customer-frustration. Parking lots are crowded, shelves are empty, aisles are full, and check-out lines are long. During these days in retail, even the simplest of smiles from a customer is too rare and fleeting. Next time you reach the front of the check-out line, make the most of your interaction by smiling, engaging, and flashing a little humor.
5) Leave a nice tip
Rare is the waiter or waitress getting wealthy at their job serving food to patrons. Most of the servers I know are working the shift just trying to make the ends meet for themselves and their family. An extra $20 added to their nightly tip will certainly bring some extra holiday cheer—especially during a busy time of the year when they’d rather be home with their family.
6) Buy movie tickets for a family in your neighborhood
Know somebody on your block who has fallen into some difficult financial times? How ’bout putting some movie gift cards in an envelope and leaving it on their doorstep? Time with family is always good. And some holiday entertainment may be just the distraction they need to experience a little extra cheer.
7) Ask your religious friend about the story behind the season
Christians, Buddhists, Jews, Muslims, and other religions all celebrate important dates and remembrances during the month of December. The next time you are at a holiday party, ask your spiritual friend the story behind their religion’s celebration. Almost certainly, their eyes will light up that somebody expressed interest in something so important to them. And whether you choose to believe the story or not, you will become better informed about another culture’s understanding of the season. Win-win.
8) Invite someone over for dinner
For any number of reasons, there are many people alone during the holidays. If you know someone alone this season, open your house to them for a meal. Rather than infringing on your holiday traditions, it may just become one of your favorites.
9) Send a gift of food/coffee
There are countless inexpensive, clutter-free gift ideas that can be shipped nearly anywhere in the world. With minimal expense and just a few mouse clicks, you can easily send an edible gift to show someone your appreciation for them.
10) Shovel your neighbor’s driveway
For our winter friends – now granted, with the prevalence of snow blowers nowadays, this early morning surprise may be a little less appreciated than in years past. But if you can bring a little cheer to your neighbor’s face on a cold, snowy morning during the holiday season, your good deed will not go unnoticed—and will likely get mentioned by the recipient as soon as they arrive at work. And when it does, it will sound something like this, “You’ll never guess what my neighbor did for me this morning…”
11) Bring in a warm breakfast for your office
Doughnuts are great. I mean, everybody loves the guy who brings in doughnuts. But to take it even one step further this holiday season, bring in something warm for your officemates to eat. If the timing is right, you can bring in something homemade. But I once had a boss unexpectedly bring in 25 various breakfast sandwiches from McDonalds and place them on the counter for the office staff. Certainly, it cost him a lot more than a dozen doughnuts. But I still talk about those breakfast sandwiches even 5 years later.
12) Go ahead, sing along
Whether in your car, in the office, or in the store, you know the songs. They get played every year. And quite frankly, some of them are pretty darn catchy. So go ahead, sing along when you get the chance. It’ll brighten your mood and almost certainly the mood of the person next to you as well. Even if singing isn’t your strongest talent, you can always hum along. Remember, cheerfulness is contagious.
Bottom Line: Keep the Christmas spirit going throughout the year by making a concerted effort to be as kind as you can to everyone you meet. Peace.
Opting Out of Consumerism at Christmas
Things That Matter: Overcoming Distraction to Pursue a More Meaningful Life, by Joshua Becker
St. Petersburg Communities
If you’re interested in any of these of communities or live in one of them and are thinking of selling, call Estelia today!
Greater Pinellas Point
Historic Old Northeast
Historic Roser Park
Isla Del Sol